What happens to my benefits when someone moves in?
What would you like help with?
Detailed explanation, checklist and sources
The new resident may become a benefits partner or, for rent benefit, a co-resident. Their income and assets may then count differently. The steps below help you check the data and choose the correct official next step.
On this page
1. Identify the benefits message
The new resident may become a benefits partner or, for rent benefit, a co-resident. Their income and assets may then count differently. This guidance concerns Dutch benefits administered by Dienst Toeslagen. Relevant data differ by benefit and household; this page does not make an individual calculation.
2. Check both the starting month and the benefit year
Register the move correctly, determine the role under the official rules and then check every benefit and the data used. Check the date and benefit year in your own message. Only the decision and official route determine whether a response deadline applies. Living together does not always make you benefits partners. If partnership arises through a notarised cohabitation agreement, check both the agreement date and shared residence. For example, if you were not already benefits partners, move in together on 6 May and sign on 20 May, this partnership starts on 1 June. If the last required event occurs on the first day of a month, it can start that day. Check co-resident rules separately for rent benefit. For partnership during part of a year, annual income is used, but combined income counts only for the months when partnership applies.
Dienst Toeslagen — iemand komt inwonen ↗
Dienst Toeslagen — toeslagpartner ↗
Dienst Toeslagen · Begin partnerschap ↗
Dienst Toeslagen · Deel van het jaar partner of medebewoner ↗
3. Compare the message with your records
Compare the data in My benefits with annual statements, rent or childcare records and household registration. Record exactly which item differs.
4. Choose the official next step
Use My benefits, the official form or the contact route for this message. This website sends nothing and changes no benefit.
5. Do not confuse a change with an objection
Changing an ongoing advance is not the same as objecting to a final calculation. A telephone call does not automatically protect an objection deadline.
6. Keep proof and seek help if needed
Keep the message, supporting documents and receipt together. Seek timely help when several years, a large amount or unclear household data are involved.
What should I do first?
Register the move correctly, determine the role under the official rules and then check every benefit and the data used.
Documents to prepare
Prepare your next stepFill in and save · Word
Tick what you have checked or collected. Note what is missing and take your overview to a meeting.
Unless saved in My overview: Your entries stay only on this screen. Download before leaving; closing or reloading clears them. Do not enter identity numbers, passwords or unnecessary personal details.
What do you still need for your next step?
Item 1 / 6 · Where do you stand with this item?
Complete decision or message in My benefits — Municipal registration date, agreement date and evidence of the partnership ground
This overview follows your own answers. It does not assess your rights or guarantee that your file is complete.
Your choices stay here. Use the buttons below if you want to save or download.
View all details, notes and timeline
Your timeline and evidence
List events and contacts. Note where you keep the evidence; no upload is needed.
What goes in my timeline?
Record what happened, when, the response and where to find the letter, message or photo. Mark uncertain dates.
Is my evidence sent?
No. You only note where it is kept. No files are uploaded or sent automatically.
How do I save my timeline?
Your entries are not saved automatically. Choose Save and continue later to store this preparation, including your timeline, in My overview. Wait for confirmation and save new changes again. You can also download a Word file without an account.
Up to 20 events. Choose a different position for an event to change the order.
0 / 6 · Checked or collected
For each event, note the date, what happened and where the evidence is kept. Example: 3 October — letter received — correspondence folder.
Describe the solution you would like, such as an explanation of a deduction and repayment of the outstanding amount.
For example: which document is missing, who can provide it and what should I do first?
Record the date and its source. If unknown, note this and check promptly. This tool does not calculate or monitor deadlines.
After your conversation
These are your own notes. Confirm agreements with the other person; these notes do not prove their agreement.
This is your preparation, not a submitted request, objection or legally reviewed document. A tick records only your own progress. Check the procedure and deadline in the original letter.
Save and continue later
Clear entries
Download anything you want to keep first. Clearing cannot be undone.
- Complete decision or message in My benefits — Municipal registration date, agreement date and evidence of the partnership ground
- Type of benefit and benefit year — For each benefit year: advance, final calculation, annual incomes and months in which someone counts
- Date, reference and any stated response deadline — Identify the incorrect item or month; check the rules for the year covered by the decision
- Income and relevant partner or co-resident data
- Relevant rent, childcare or family situation
- Copy of change, objection or contact and confirmation
Contact with a lawyer
You can use the chat and information without a phone number. A contact request requires a phone number, a verified email address and your wish for telephone contact. Our team assesses which partner fits your question. Data is shared only under the stated consent procedure. A partner or engagement is not guaranteed.
View the current application processSources
Need personal assistance? Request a lawyer through our chat. We explain the next step; submitting a request does not engage a lawyer. The links below support the legal information.
Dienst Toeslagen — iemand komt inwonen ↗Dienst Toeslagen — toeslagpartner ↗Dienst Toeslagen · Begin partnerschap ↗Dienst Toeslagen · Deel van het jaar partner of medebewoner ↗Sources may be in Dutch. General information about Dutch law, not individual legal advice.