Selling a jointly owned home in case of disagreement
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Detailed explanation, checklist and sources
Do you disagree about selling your jointly owned home? Put your proposals on price, estate agent, costs and division in writing. Seek help if you cannot reach an agreement together.
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Check who owns the property
Use the deed of ownership and cohabitation or marriage agreements. Note the mortgage debt, use of the home and charges paid.
Make a concrete sales proposal
Propose a valuation, estate agent, asking price and arrangements for viewings. Also discuss temporary occupancy and the costs until transfer.
Have a deadlock assessed
If you cannot reach agreements, seek a mediator or lawyer regarding possible division proceedings. Do not sell or divide the proceeds unilaterally as if consent were established.
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Deed of ownership
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- Deed of ownership
- Valuation and mortgage
- Proposals and responses
Frequently asked questions
Can my ex indefinitely block every solution?
Have the legal options for division assessed. Which step is appropriate depends on ownership and agreements; a court-ordered solution is not the same as being allowed to sign yourself.